Relationship dynamics can change...

But that is not necessarily a bad thing.  Change can not only be a good thing, it is necessary for any kind of growth to occur.  

Now does that mean that change always looks good, is gonna be comfortable the whole way, and is super easy to deal with? 

Hell no!

Some changes to the relationship can bring on shame, anger, disgust, or loss just as it can also welcome in joy, grief, contentment, and safety. 

Especially when those "changes" include having to work through the impacts of trauma, sexual or otherwise, that lives in between you as couple.

Let's look at these changes, work them out together, and get you back to where you want to be as partners.